jz red something from one blog.
new thing which caught my attention.
its bout engagement. do we agree? is dat true? im afraid to say anything.
1/ bertunang adat
pihak lelaki datang ke rumah pihak perempuan membawa hajat besar mewakili lelaki tersebut untuk melamar memperisterikan anak perempuan mereka. setelah persetujuan dicapai, maka ibu kepada lelaki akan menyarungkan cincin ke jari manis. kedua pihak saling berkias2, kdg2 guna sepatah dua rangkap pantun sbg penyeri majlis....masa ni sang teruna x naik ke rumah perempuan pun, just wait in the car (normally),.. bring together da dulang hantaran.... n the girl's parents will decide how much the hantaran gonna be.... but the girl's parents can never asked for certain amount... accept whatever amount da guy want to.
2/ bertunang syar'i.....
maksudnya bilamana saja ade lelaki yg melahirkan hasratnya untuk menikahi kita dan kita dengan rela hati bersetuju, walaupun masih belum mendapat persetujuan dari ibu bapa, maka ini sudah dikira bertunang syar'i even there is no ring or anything, but mmg kedua pihak dah psg niat untuk menikah kemudian hari serta telah berbincang ttg masa depan mereka, maka ini juga dinamakn mereka telah bertunang syar'i....
Friday, August 28, 2009
Monday, August 24, 2009
nasi minyak
sat - 1st day of fasting.
i didn’t cook for ‘berbuka’ eventhough it was weekend.
decide to rest plus I got m.c due to food poisoning last fri.
really hurt ma…
scare still but my tummy need something.
a light one already enough.
my mood to cook came in great yesterday.
‘nasi minyak’ - actually dat was my postponed agenda.
n bcoz of ur request too my dear. =)
certain stuffs were still outstanding so dat I made a move to Giant Seri Kembangan.
all trolleys were out; juz baskets.
not to wait any longer, ive picked a basket.
after realizing it was quite heavy already, my decision was to shop twice.
means…shop, pay, n keep things in car. 2 times!
uhuhu…what a real tiresome.
no time to waste - my whole evening spent in da kitchen.
‘nasi minyak’ prepared after ‘ayam masak merah' was done.
i did my ‘acar’ later on.
sigh..i felt like to faint then.
..but ur compliment enough to heal me my dear. =)
(forgot to snap pic of my dishes coz of da crucial time for berbuka)
i didn’t cook for ‘berbuka’ eventhough it was weekend.
decide to rest plus I got m.c due to food poisoning last fri.
really hurt ma…
scare still but my tummy need something.
a light one already enough.
my mood to cook came in great yesterday.
‘nasi minyak’ - actually dat was my postponed agenda.
n bcoz of ur request too my dear. =)
certain stuffs were still outstanding so dat I made a move to Giant Seri Kembangan.
all trolleys were out; juz baskets.
not to wait any longer, ive picked a basket.
after realizing it was quite heavy already, my decision was to shop twice.
means…shop, pay, n keep things in car. 2 times!
uhuhu…what a real tiresome.
no time to waste - my whole evening spent in da kitchen.
‘nasi minyak’ prepared after ‘ayam masak merah' was done.
i did my ‘acar’ later on.
sigh..i felt like to faint then.
..but ur compliment enough to heal me my dear. =)
(forgot to snap pic of my dishes coz of da crucial time for berbuka)
Thursday, August 20, 2009
uhh..my car...
black? why did my cute little white was spotted with black?
uhuhu..i was wondering while walking towards my car this morning.
oh no. somebody or whatever.. carelessly scraped my car.
enough to bomb out my anger or at least no smile for today.
poor u my little..i’m sorry but it wasn’t my fault in total.
plus, i believe da space was ample enough for any vehicle to go thru.
disheartening. da culprit wasn’t feel guilty? did n away.
nway, i must be lucky enough to find da culprit….
…..with too many vehicles here..emm..i don’t think so.
it’s ok. being fated to lose some money.
most importantly, do have a moral value. plzzz….admit mistake.
not so bad but still da black scrapped my white =(
uhuhu..i was wondering while walking towards my car this morning.
oh no. somebody or whatever.. carelessly scraped my car.
enough to bomb out my anger or at least no smile for today.
poor u my little..i’m sorry but it wasn’t my fault in total.
plus, i believe da space was ample enough for any vehicle to go thru.
disheartening. da culprit wasn’t feel guilty? did n away.
nway, i must be lucky enough to find da culprit….
…..with too many vehicles here..emm..i don’t think so.
it’s ok. being fated to lose some money.
most importantly, do have a moral value. plzzz….admit mistake.
not so bad but still da black scrapped my white =(Tuesday, August 18, 2009
one question
1 question came to me ystrday.
i believe it will come to or going out from everybody.
im sure this would bring at least a smile to anybody...
but at last i understand da actual feeling of being asked bout this.
unlike da flight of an imagination.
happy doesnt stand alone.
everything is to be bound in life.
i was buffling...
enough to confiscate my moment.
i believe it will come to or going out from everybody.
im sure this would bring at least a smile to anybody...
but at last i understand da actual feeling of being asked bout this.
unlike da flight of an imagination.
happy doesnt stand alone.
everything is to be bound in life.
i was buffling...
enough to confiscate my moment.
Monday, August 17, 2009
resume working
i’m finally resume to work!
....after being on medical leave for 3 days last wk. - URTI.
fever…running nose... cough..
owh..cough is really killing me.
i cant rmmbr how many time i was awake from my nite sleeping lately.
well, im still not feeling well but i hate to stay too long at home.
esp under sickness.
uhh.. up from bed, had my meal, took prescription, fell on bed again..
dat was my routine from Wed till Fri. n..plus da wknd.
HBO movies no longer interesting ..n so da star movies..
fortunately, ESPN had cheer me up on Sat nite.
Chelsea vs Hull City. ..he2. my Chelsea did a nice play. mmuahh!!
last nite too got matches - MU vs Birmingham. Tottenham vs Liverpool.
but these 2 matches were not so catchy to me.
enough to just watch. may be coz dats not Chelsea. he2.
huk3. all these annoying things are hanging out at my throat rite now…
….very uncomfortable!
still having sorethroat...but a mild one...
dont feel like working coz my body is very tired...
dont feel like talking to others due to my running nose and cough..
hence - i just sit down and keep quite...
please God... take this infection away from me...
n im afraid of da killing virus. indeed.
....after being on medical leave for 3 days last wk. - URTI.
fever…running nose... cough..
owh..cough is really killing me.
i cant rmmbr how many time i was awake from my nite sleeping lately.
well, im still not feeling well but i hate to stay too long at home.
esp under sickness.
uhh.. up from bed, had my meal, took prescription, fell on bed again..
dat was my routine from Wed till Fri. n..plus da wknd.
HBO movies no longer interesting ..n so da star movies..
fortunately, ESPN had cheer me up on Sat nite.
Chelsea vs Hull City. ..he2. my Chelsea did a nice play. mmuahh!!
last nite too got matches - MU vs Birmingham. Tottenham vs Liverpool.
but these 2 matches were not so catchy to me.
enough to just watch. may be coz dats not Chelsea. he2.
huk3. all these annoying things are hanging out at my throat rite now…
….very uncomfortable!
still having sorethroat...but a mild one...
dont feel like working coz my body is very tired...
dont feel like talking to others due to my running nose and cough..
hence - i just sit down and keep quite...
please God... take this infection away from me...
n im afraid of da killing virus. indeed.
Saturday, August 8, 2009
exam
juz coming back from special exam for PTD.
my mind is tired. sigh...
i need my bed very badly - eversince tgh jwb essei td.
...nk tido dh late evening.
i decide to write this..
yesterday, i was actually bewildered..to go or not to.
but still, put an effort to survey da school after work.
& this morning i've made a move to SMK Putrajaya Precint 16(1).
quite easy to find.
20 mins b4 da 1st paper...
i saw quite everybody was holding a book..or a note at least.
well prepared, i guess.
me? ahaha. not even a paper.
i hate to read this kind of facts of course.
'kenegaraan'..'malaysia kita'..uhuhu..puhleezzz.
gosh! where's my pencil?
not in my bag. certainly. i left da most important one.
but fortunately there was a sweet lady got extra for me.
well, section A was a real nitemare.
question no.1 pn i dh x tau nk jwb.
but now..i knw i've picked a rite answer.
my instinct is alwiz doing great.ahaks.
plus da lessons during schooldays..
i would say it was not so good but pretty ok.
section B..hehe..
math. i love this very much.
da questions were not really tough.
but its kind of mind challenging..
u need to be everything fast -read,understand & count.
(no calculator of course..only mind was allowed)
surrender. i lose..against time.
40 mins for 45 Qs. i cant..& so everyone else.
really depressed with dat but i enjoy this section.
section C...really easy i guess.
2 malay + 2 english passages.
read, understand & pick da answer.
35 mins for this 20 Qs. lovely. i've completed early.
12 noon. i drove home.
da other 2 papers (section D&E) scheduled after lunch. began @ 2 p.m
uhh..dh lame x write essay..esp..malay one.
english - at least i did spent few time to write my blog. =)
3 Qs, answer 1.
i've picked H1N1 issue for malay essay & recycling topic for english one.
well, my brain was working great this evening.
many ideas were thrown away..voila!
i thought this sleepy mind wouldnt do this.
i was sooooo....happy.
16:30. "please stop writing".
time to go home. hooray!
i was really tired. my mind at most.
this is what i feel now.
nway, i've completed my 1st PTD exam at last.
certainly, this would impress my family..after 3 skipped exams..
ahaha.
my mind is tired. sigh...
i need my bed very badly - eversince tgh jwb essei td.
...nk tido dh late evening.
i decide to write this..
yesterday, i was actually bewildered..to go or not to.
but still, put an effort to survey da school after work.
& this morning i've made a move to SMK Putrajaya Precint 16(1).
quite easy to find.
20 mins b4 da 1st paper...
i saw quite everybody was holding a book..or a note at least.
well prepared, i guess.
me? ahaha. not even a paper.
i hate to read this kind of facts of course.
'kenegaraan'..'malaysia kita'..uhuhu..puhleezzz.
gosh! where's my pencil?
not in my bag. certainly. i left da most important one.
but fortunately there was a sweet lady got extra for me.
well, section A was a real nitemare.
question no.1 pn i dh x tau nk jwb.
but now..i knw i've picked a rite answer.
my instinct is alwiz doing great.ahaks.
plus da lessons during schooldays..
i would say it was not so good but pretty ok.
section B..hehe..
math. i love this very much.
da questions were not really tough.
but its kind of mind challenging..
u need to be everything fast -read,understand & count.
(no calculator of course..only mind was allowed)
surrender. i lose..against time.
40 mins for 45 Qs. i cant..& so everyone else.
really depressed with dat but i enjoy this section.
section C...really easy i guess.
2 malay + 2 english passages.
read, understand & pick da answer.
35 mins for this 20 Qs. lovely. i've completed early.
12 noon. i drove home.
da other 2 papers (section D&E) scheduled after lunch. began @ 2 p.m
uhh..dh lame x write essay..esp..malay one.
english - at least i did spent few time to write my blog. =)
3 Qs, answer 1.
i've picked H1N1 issue for malay essay & recycling topic for english one.
well, my brain was working great this evening.
many ideas were thrown away..voila!
i thought this sleepy mind wouldnt do this.
i was sooooo....happy.
16:30. "please stop writing".
time to go home. hooray!
i was really tired. my mind at most.
this is what i feel now.
nway, i've completed my 1st PTD exam at last.
certainly, this would impress my family..after 3 skipped exams..
ahaha.
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
worrying...=(
my sister mms me with subject, suspect H1N1.
she was covered with mask.
it was a joke i thought.
then i was astounded to know dat she didnt pass for 2 screenings.
asking more on dat, da test shown 39!
considerate level is 38.
she is currently under quarantine.
which really put me in a great worry.
hopefully da result will find to be untrue.
nway, this case is crucially spreading...world issue!
anything can jz happen
plus she is under international college.
im praying for her safety & health.. :(
she was covered with mask.
it was a joke i thought.
then i was astounded to know dat she didnt pass for 2 screenings.
asking more on dat, da test shown 39!
considerate level is 38.
she is currently under quarantine.
which really put me in a great worry.
hopefully da result will find to be untrue.
nway, this case is crucially spreading...world issue!
anything can jz happen
plus she is under international college.
im praying for her safety & health.. :(
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
thought for da day
i got this last nite. jz red this morning.
what a nice piece of writing to share.
how fortunate & blessed those who being a wife.
hope my turn to be soon...;)
.........................................................................
Mulianya seorang isteri disisi Allah...
Dan betapa berharganya wanita yang bergelar isteri ini pada keluarga, suami dan anak-anak.
Rugi dan binasalah suami-suami yang tidak menghargai isteri mereka kerana isteri inilah yang akan membantu mereka di akhirat kelak.
Biarlah buruk mana isteri anda, sayangilah mereka.....
Beruntungnya seorang wanita yg ada rahim ini ialah dia bekerja denganTuhan... jadi 'kilang ' manusia.
Tiap-tiap bulan dia diberi cuti bergaji penuh...
7 sehingga 15 hari sebulan dia tak wajib sembahyang
tetapi Allah anggap diwaktu itu sembahyang terbaik darinya.
Cuti bersalin juga sehingga 60 hari.
Cuti ini bukan cuti suka hati tapi cuti yang Allah beri sebab dia bekerja dengan Allah.
Orang lelaki tak ada cuti dari sembahyang.. .
sembahyang wajib baginya dari baligh sehingga habis nyawanya.
Satu lagi berita gembira untuk wanita,
sepanjang dia mengandung Allah sentiasa mengampunkan dosanya,
Lahir saja bayi seluruh dosanya habis.
Inilah nikmat Tuhan beri kepada wanita,
jadi kenapa perlu takut nak beranak?
Marilah kita pegang kepada tali Allah.
Seandainya wanita itu mati sewaktu bersalin,
itu dianggap mati syahid, Allah izinkan terus masuk Syurga.
Untuk orang kafir dia tak dapat masuk Syurga tapi Allah beri kelonggaran siksa kubur.
Untuk peringatan semua wanita yang kebaikan suaminya,
semuanya isteri dapat pahala tetapi dosa-dosa suami dia tak tanggung.
Di akhirat nanti seorang wanita solehah akan terperanjat dengan pahala extra.. yang banyak dia terima diatas segala kebaikan suaminya yang tak disedari. Contohnya bila dia redha suaminya pergi berjemaah di masjid atau ke majlis ilmu, bersedekah.. ganjaran Alah ke atasnya jua..
Bila dia lihat suaminya tengah terhegeh-hegeh di titian Sirat dia tak nak masuk syuga tanpa suaminya,
jadi dia pun memberi pahalanya kepada suami untuk lepas masuk syurga.
Di dunia lagi, kalau suami dalam kesusahan isteri boleh bantu tambah lagi di akhirat.
Kalau seorang isteri asyik merungut,
mulut selalu muncung terhadap suami dia tak akan dapat pahala extra ini..
Manakala suami pula mempunyai tugas-tugas berat di dalam dan di luar rumah, segala dosa-dosa anak isteri yang tak dididik dia akan tanggung ditambah lagi dengan dosa-dosa yang lain..
Dinasihatkan kepada semua wanita supaya faham akan syariat Allah agar tidak derhaka denganNya.
Sesungguhnya wanita dijadikan daripada rusuk kiri lelaki.
Dia bukan dicipta dari kepala ke kaki, juga bukan dari tapak kaki.
Dia dicipta dari sebelah rusuk kiri lelaki supaya dia hampir kepada kamu(lelaki), lengan lelaki dicipta untuk mempertahankan wanita,
dengan hati lelaki untuk disayangi.
Woman was made from the rib of man,
She was not created from his head to top him,
Nor form his feet to be stepped upon,
She was made from his side to be close to him,
From beneath his arm to be protected by him,
Near his heart to be loved by him.
what a nice piece of writing to share.
how fortunate & blessed those who being a wife.
hope my turn to be soon...;)
.........................................................................
Mulianya seorang isteri disisi Allah...
Dan betapa berharganya wanita yang bergelar isteri ini pada keluarga, suami dan anak-anak.
Rugi dan binasalah suami-suami yang tidak menghargai isteri mereka kerana isteri inilah yang akan membantu mereka di akhirat kelak.
Biarlah buruk mana isteri anda, sayangilah mereka.....
Beruntungnya seorang wanita yg ada rahim ini ialah dia bekerja denganTuhan... jadi 'kilang ' manusia.
Tiap-tiap bulan dia diberi cuti bergaji penuh...
7 sehingga 15 hari sebulan dia tak wajib sembahyang
tetapi Allah anggap diwaktu itu sembahyang terbaik darinya.
Cuti bersalin juga sehingga 60 hari.
Cuti ini bukan cuti suka hati tapi cuti yang Allah beri sebab dia bekerja dengan Allah.
Orang lelaki tak ada cuti dari sembahyang.. .
sembahyang wajib baginya dari baligh sehingga habis nyawanya.
Satu lagi berita gembira untuk wanita,
sepanjang dia mengandung Allah sentiasa mengampunkan dosanya,
Lahir saja bayi seluruh dosanya habis.
Inilah nikmat Tuhan beri kepada wanita,
jadi kenapa perlu takut nak beranak?
Marilah kita pegang kepada tali Allah.
Seandainya wanita itu mati sewaktu bersalin,
itu dianggap mati syahid, Allah izinkan terus masuk Syurga.
Untuk orang kafir dia tak dapat masuk Syurga tapi Allah beri kelonggaran siksa kubur.
Untuk peringatan semua wanita yang kebaikan suaminya,
semuanya isteri dapat pahala tetapi dosa-dosa suami dia tak tanggung.
Di akhirat nanti seorang wanita solehah akan terperanjat dengan pahala extra.. yang banyak dia terima diatas segala kebaikan suaminya yang tak disedari. Contohnya bila dia redha suaminya pergi berjemaah di masjid atau ke majlis ilmu, bersedekah.. ganjaran Alah ke atasnya jua..
Bila dia lihat suaminya tengah terhegeh-hegeh di titian Sirat dia tak nak masuk syuga tanpa suaminya,
jadi dia pun memberi pahalanya kepada suami untuk lepas masuk syurga.
Di dunia lagi, kalau suami dalam kesusahan isteri boleh bantu tambah lagi di akhirat.
Kalau seorang isteri asyik merungut,
mulut selalu muncung terhadap suami dia tak akan dapat pahala extra ini..
Manakala suami pula mempunyai tugas-tugas berat di dalam dan di luar rumah, segala dosa-dosa anak isteri yang tak dididik dia akan tanggung ditambah lagi dengan dosa-dosa yang lain..
Dinasihatkan kepada semua wanita supaya faham akan syariat Allah agar tidak derhaka denganNya.
Sesungguhnya wanita dijadikan daripada rusuk kiri lelaki.
Dia bukan dicipta dari kepala ke kaki, juga bukan dari tapak kaki.
Dia dicipta dari sebelah rusuk kiri lelaki supaya dia hampir kepada kamu(lelaki), lengan lelaki dicipta untuk mempertahankan wanita,
dengan hati lelaki untuk disayangi.
Woman was made from the rib of man,
She was not created from his head to top him,
Nor form his feet to be stepped upon,
She was made from his side to be close to him,
From beneath his arm to be protected by him,
Near his heart to be loved by him.
Monday, August 3, 2009
contract renewed
i come to da office as' staf br' today. ehehe.
actually, my 2 yrs contract was expired on 31st.
i was to report myself in by 2nd for da new term but..
2nd fell on sun; so 3rd is my '1st day' of working.
it was no funny for us..but quite weird for others..
1st day after 2 yrs of working? ahaks.
nway, i'm thankful for this..
thanx 2 my superior for his supportive appraisal...
n da other top mgmt certainly, for da approval.
n...for a great increment too.he3..
im still serving PjH. ;)
actually, my 2 yrs contract was expired on 31st.
i was to report myself in by 2nd for da new term but..
2nd fell on sun; so 3rd is my '1st day' of working.
it was no funny for us..but quite weird for others..
1st day after 2 yrs of working? ahaks.
nway, i'm thankful for this..
thanx 2 my superior for his supportive appraisal...
n da other top mgmt certainly, for da approval.
n...for a great increment too.he3..
im still serving PjH. ;)
Saturday, August 1, 2009
out of town..=)
out of town for celebration? ahaks. i would say it was a last minute decision. he insisted to go. indeed, it was for my 25th. hmm...many sweet moments but jz personally kept.
nway, enjoy these shots.=)
i love this shot very much!
after climbing uphill...
missing da beautiful colors...
these roses..wow.real live pink!
u like it my dear?
enjoying nature before going home..
...time to go. huk3...routine life is waiting. time to tense again. it was really wonderful being there. thank u so much my dear. u rock my special day!
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